In one of
the parables by Chuang Tzu as translated by Thomas Merton, there is an
interesting one entitled ‘The Need to Win’. It goes like this:
“The Need to
Win”
When an archer
is shooting for nothing
He has all his
skill.
If he shoots
for a brass buckle
He is already
nervous.
If he shoots
for a prize of gold
He goes blind
Or sees two
targets—
He is out of
his mind!
His skill has
not changed. But the prize
Divides
him. He cares.
He thinks more
of winning
Than of
shooting—
And the need to
win
Drains him of power. [xix. 4.]
In an
example, this can be likened to stage fright when giving a speech, or entering
a competition. One who is competing had practiced countless times in
preparation to a particular event. But still, one still feels nervous. The
negative ‘what ifs’ comes to mind. Everyone has felt what the archer felt at
some point in our lives. It is implied in the parable that because of the
desire of the archer to win, he became restless and nervous in aiming for his
target. The eagerness to win has shrouded his focus on shooting itself. Instead
his focus directed to the prize.
Winning is
only one side of the coin. In winning, there is also a chance of losing. The
anxiety that is brought about by desiring to achieve something is also
triggered by the possibility of failure. The ability to achieve a goal is being
blocked by fear of not doing well. One loses faith in his skill due to the
pressure of his eagerness to achieve success and perfection. The archer failed
to let go of his inhibitions.
We involve
ourselves too much in the affairs of man and the world. We dwell too much in
living in accordance with the standards that mere humans made. The Way of the
Tao is not absorbed to the trivialities of man. It strives to follow what
nature has. And nature must not be smeared with man’s interference, desire,
emotions, and etc.
This emotional
attachment to what we desire seems ironic. It seems that because of our
emotional attachment to the outcome, it causes us to fail. In short, we care
too much. It seems that the things that we want to reach are the very things
that are dragging us down.
In other
words, the cause of one’s failure to reach a goal is the fact that he gives
more focus on his feeling of desire. The archer who shoots at nothing has the
skill for his mind is detached to the weight of desiring to obtain a certain
outcome. The archer’s focus was on the process of shooting itself. A person
whose main concern dwells on what he desires he becomes pulled down and
judgments become clouded. In Tao Te Ching 46, it speaks of great peril in
letting our desire overcome our lives.
It seems
here that when aiming at our target, we must clear our minds with eagerness to
reach it. Instead the focus is simply doing what is required instead of over
thinking the goal. As Taoists imply: Let go and follow the flow. One would
think that doing the excess is better than having the possibility to achieve
less. However, the efficiency in a task is really achieved when is not burdened
with the desired outcome. Eventually, the purpose and goal will come smoothly.
This is ok.
TumugonBurahin